1st 30 Day Challenge – Day 2 – Forming a New Habit
Ohhhhhh man! I ALMOST didn’t approach anyone today. This was so tough! Not the act of approaching, the snapping-out-of-it, and forming a new habit of approaching strangers. It was Monday, day after...
View Article1st 30 Day Challenge – Day 3 – Forming a Habit – Habits Form Hard
Man, even with keeping this blog updated DAILY, I’m still really struggling to REMEMBER to do this, and not just go through my life not doing it. It’s not THAT hard to start a conversation with...
View Article1st 30 Day Challenge – Day 4 – I’m Avoiding the Really Hot Girls
Well I went to the new gym, as planned and it was a disaster. My workout was fine, but this is NOT the spot. Very family oriented, almost no young single adults. The weight room was a dungeon with 3...
View Article1st 30 Day Challenge – Day 5 – Some momentum
Today I went to lunch at starbucks, and made a point to talk to a girl waiting for her drink. Opened with “are those SPEAKERS??” Because her baby-stroller had speakers. 10 second conversation that...
View Article1st 30 Day Challenge – Day 6 – Doing it when you Lack Motivation
Well, I didn’t talk to anyone at lunch yesterday, and I didn’t talk to anyone back at the old gym. (I pulled the plug on the whole new gym idea, since that one was worse socially). What’s crazy is...
View Article1st 30 Day Challenge – Day 7 – Kissing Two Girls
Ha! See, I knew this would start paying off. Don’t get me wrong, the real payoff is that I’m doing this for me, and it’s making me a stronger, more outgoing person, but some fringe benefits sure make...
View Article1st 30 Day Challenge – Day 8 – Dealing with Rejection
This is getting old/tedious… but I gotta’ do it. I’m committed to the 30 days. I’m starting to feel like Bill Murray in the movie Groundhog Day. Same thing today, went to Starbucks, opened no one....
View Article1st 30 Day Challenge – Day 9 – More Day Game, Less Bars
Today, after work I talked to one woman in the parking lot outside the gym. She was STRUGGLING with a baby, a stroller, a car seat and a child. She needed at least one more arm so I offered to help....
View ArticleThe One Big Reason You’re Blowing It With Women
Won’t it be awesome, after you read this thread, and fix the one thing you’re doing that’s causing you to blow it with women, and then everything will be ALL BETTER?! Lol! Wouldn’t that be nice....
View ArticleAre You Rewarding Bad Behavior?
The reason I started this blog is because I know, I know from LIVING it, that the way you talk to a woman in conversation DOES matter. And that there is a way to talk to girls, that is attractive and...
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